“We Were Just Pretending” – Why Roleplay Stays With You

by | Jun 29, 2025 | Uncategorized | 0 comments

Have you ever disappeared into someone else for a night? Not on stage for an audience, just privately. Intimately. With another person who was ready to believe the fantasy just as much as you?

Because that’s what roleplay really is – costumes, scripts, and the permission to speak differently. To behave differently. To feel something you don’t normally get to feel in the day-to-day.
And I know we’re grown-ups. I know we all have Things To Do. But my gosh, what a shame that we forget to play.

You, but slightly more dangerous
Roleplay can be silly. Two glasses of wine in, I slip into an accent, and suddenly you’re a thief on the run. Maybe I’m the dectective getting turned on by my No. 1 suspect.
We laugh halfway through. We forget the plot. We do it again next week.
Sometimes play can be slower.. deeper, and more immersive. You pick an era—say, 1950s London. I’m the lounge singer. You’re the patron in the front row. My shoulder strap won’t stay up and you tip me handsomely anyway.
There’s a whole world inside that fantasy. A setting. A tension. A reason for everything to feel hotter than it should.

We not not even speak differently, or change clothes, or even leave the room.
It can be a simple shift in energy:

I become the nervous intern. You become the colleague who cannot wait to show me the layout of the office.
I’m the soft, spoiled thing you were paid to protect. You’re the concierge who decides I’ve misbehaved.
There are infinite ways to play.

Being neurodivergent makes roleplay even sweeter
I’m neurodivergent which means that certain kinds of structure, imagination, and sensory attention? They light me up.
Roleplay is where my brain gets to play chess and flirt at the same time. It’s a performance and a puzzle. It keeps me grounded, even when I’m improvising.

And if you’re neurodivergent, shy, or just new to exploring, roleplay can be a perfect tool. You get to try on new shapes of confidence.
You’re not being “fake” you’re playing a role in our movie.
And maybe it’s easier to act how you want when you’re speaking as the Secret Assassin, the Confined Captive, or the Celebrity being snuck out the hotel’s back door. (No photos, please.)

Let yourself be ridiculous
I’ve done some completely outrageous scenes.
I’ve played the moaning museum guide, the hungover heiress, the ultimate seduectress!

Some roleplays have been bratty, hot and filthy. Some charming, and weird, and ends with both of us breaking character and laughing on the floor.
And the best part? Those moments stay with you. Like a photo you never took. Like an inside joke no one else will ever understand.

How many people can say they had a spontaneous, fully fleshed-out fantasy night with their partner?
How many people actually remember their last hotel date because it had a story, a power dynamic, a shared little secret?

We get to make those moments. They’re not just sexy. They’re cinematic. They stick to your ribs.

Ready for a scene?
If you’re curious – good. That’s all you need. You don’t need a whole plan or a Shakespearean monologue. Just a spark. A name you’d like to be called. An idea you’d never say out loud in the real world. I’ll handle the rest.

And if you don’t know what you want? Let me choose something delicious for us.

You might not remember what you had for dinner that nigh, but you’ll remember who you were.

Just for a little while.
Just for me.

I have a bucket list of plots – take a gander. Mention “roleplay” in your introduction and let’s craft something unforgettable – together.


Written by Sable Gold

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